I was fortunate to work with quite a few high achievers. Most of them met the criteria for Asperger syndrome. As high-achievers are a rarity, the so-called regular folks invented all sorts of mental disorders to describe people pushing civilization forward.

Man, you are normal. Do not complain that they do not ask you for a coffee or a beer. It is mostly time wasted anyway. Take it as a blessing that others do not bother you and focus on what you like and do well. You do not need them; they need you.